RE: im scared of having sex

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From: James Kendall (JamesKendall_at_discussions.microsoft.com)
Date: 11/22/04


Date: Mon, 22 Nov 2004 11:05:03 -0800

I am sorry to hear that. Even though I agree with the above reply I also
believe you need to hear some good advice.

1st, dump the boy. He sounds like he just wants to use you as a toy not a
person. If he did respect you as a person he would not keep persisting in
trying to get you to have it with him.

2nd, don't confuse love with hormones. When in the heat of passion or
"love" you are not thinking clearly. If you can rationally say no I do not
want to then you don't. Do not be fooled by your feelings which are fleeting
and can cause you a lifetime of hurt (such as a STD, pregnancy, loss of
purity).

3rd, as a guy looking back on my life I did pressure a girl once and ended
up regretting it myself. She did to. We have been since trying to pick up
the pieces of our lives. Don't make the same mistake.

(kendalls820@mailaka.net) A note to you who hate my response. Just shut up!

"Kayleigh" wrote:

> my boyfriend wants to have sex, but im to scared that he only wants me for
> that, im scared and dont no what to do, i love him to bits but everyone nos
> aboiut us because he tried it on me before but then i didnt want to then i
> didnt no what to do. thanx



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