what do i do, everything goes to hell during setup

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I am used to NT4.

Now I am installing server 2003, I have tried standard, SBS, and enterprise.
I can get the base on, but when I try to add any software or updates every
thing goes to hell.

I want my config to be the following:
Server w/clustering
MOM
SUS
SMS
ISA and what ever else is needed to make this work.

I have got all the software that any one could ever want and then some.

Most of the time the problems come from ActiveDirectory or SQLserver

Is there any one out there that can tell me the oerder these need to added
and the config for each?

My two computers are exactly the same (purchased the same time to my specs)
the spec are the following:
Dual Intel Core 2 Extream 2.9Ghz
32G Ram
Multiport Monitor cards
RAID w/ 5-750G HDs
Cisco 4port NICs

I will anser any questions to help me, please contact me at
CRISP411@xxxxxxxxxxx

I will thank any one that helps.

For those that ask what I am doing, I am starting up a WISP with an upstart
of 500 APs



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