the person who i am chatting too doesn't recieve what i'm typing

From: fcuk (fcuk_at_discussions.microsoft.com)
Date: 02/28/05 

Date: Mon, 28 Feb 2005 15:45:02 -0800

about 3-5minutes into the conseration, the person who i am talking to fails
to recieve my messages, they just come up on my screen. i was wondering if it
was just bad lag, but it has happened twice now in two days.
i keep checking the msn messenger connection and it keeps saying that it is
good.

also it takes me several attempts to log on to msn.

thanks in advance